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Being with my boyfriend for two years in not
quite hard especially when it looks that we are still dating up to this time. I
met him from my other friends and at first we really did get along well. He
likes the things I like and then suddenly after few days of dating we are
already in a relationship that only my closest friends know about it. So every
free time that we have in our office (because we work in one company together)
is exciting but full of sacrifices. We don’t want other people to notice that we
are together, first because relationships are not allowed in the office
environment and obviously the kind of relationship that we have can’t be
practiced in public. So we act as best friends in our company so no one could
suspect that we are happy with the situation that we are together and would
never have a hard time seeing each other. We all have the excuses in the world
why would his parents and my parents would not suspect something bad about us,
that’s why working in the same company is good for me so I can monitor if other
guys are also interested and see if they are trying to flirt with him, there’s
no way they can snatch my boyfriend from me. During our day off we go out dating
with our friends like hang out in a coffee shop talk about the latest buzz in
our world who’s the new boyfriend of this guy and planning where we can go the
next summer vacation. Usually one of our friends would bring along his girl pal
to be not so obvious on what type of group he is in. He is so afraid to open up
with the public and so discreet of his sexuality. He is anxious that people
might not accept him if they would truly know his real identity as a guy lover,
because he has a reputation he needs to protect and love to privately engage
with our wholesome activities, he doesn’t have the courage to tell it to even
some of his closest friends because of the fear of being rejected, people might
say that he wasted his life for something he was not suppose to be. For our
special dates we go to gay bars to enjoy and relax ourselves from the exhausting
night we had from the office, it’s so tiring to keep myself talking over and
over so I guess that’s a reward to see pleasure every once in awhile especially
if we know that it will not harm us. Dating is entertaining and amusing because
you get to know more what your partner wants, like what kind of food he craves
for, the type of places he wants to see, the variety of drinks he gets for the
night. It is such an a good idea for people who still keeps on dating even if
they are already together to keep their relationship stronger and healthier and
not just keeping themselves from the rest of the world.
Why is porn so
popular? Well that’s a question we must address at the most basic level of
humanity. After all, we are all human beings who must do most of those acts to
reproduce over the years. Sex is the most fundamental element of reproduction
and as thinking animals, we must feel a need to have sex or we wouldn’t make it
as a species. This is especially true over the years and especially when we get
older. I know that when I was 18 up until my late 20’s I could have sex
anytime, anywhere, and I’m almost embarrassed to say, but with almost anybody if
the hormone and alcohol levels were high enough. But now sex is almost boring.
Sure, my girlfriend is hot and very sexy, but I find myself needing to recreate
porn fantasies in my mind to become interested in sex. If my girlfriend wasn’t
in her early 20’s, we probably would only have sex maybe 2-3 times per month.
So enter porn. Whether it be free, amateur, hardcore or xxx, etc, it helps.
Now I’m not advocating that younger or inexperienced guys who are reading this
article to go out there and learn all they ever wanted to know about sex through
porn videos. That’s the last thing I want. In fact, learning about sex through
porn in the biggest mistake you can make. If you want to learn anything through
porn, it’s that whatever the guys are doing there with their big dicks, you
should do the exact opposite. The way to pleasure women in porn videos is the
exact opposite you should do it in real life. But what’s the point in all of
this? Probably that every now and then everyone wants to get laid. As a
responsible partner, it is up to us to be “in the mood” for sex. In other
words, create the mood for the other person. Especially if you have not
initiated sex in a long time, it’s about time you went out, rented a porn video
and created the need in your mind. If you watch enough sex, you realize what
you have been missing for the last few days and you know have it in you to get
off your ass and show your men or women just how much you care! So there is a
practical use for porn pictures and videos after all.
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